Im So Confused!
Okay, I'll explain 'The Game'.
You have been playing 'The Game' for most of your life (not counting baby years) and you have been winning.
Unfortunately since you've read this post, you've now lost the game. Its okay, you'll start playing again soon.
Simply put, the only way not to lose the game is to not think about the game.
Once you think about the game, you've lost.
Once you forget about the game, you're playing it again.
This helpful wiki article should fill you in (
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Game_%28mind_game%29)
I'm so sorry.